Most of us spend their lives doing things for others. If you are a parent, you devote all your time to your children. If you are employed, you devote much of the time to work. If you are married, you do a lot of things for your partner. It’s great to help others, but it’s important to take care of yourself. Take a look at the things you need to start doing for yourself today. When you are the best version of yourself, you can take better care for others.

Smile more

Smiling activates parts of the brain that make you healthier and happier. Every time you smile, your happiness increases because of the endorphins. Put a funny picture on the phone, read jokes every day, keep funny pictures of your children. Do everything you need, but smile.

Laugh more

You can see laughter as a higher level of smiling. Laughter causes even greater release of endorphins and makes you even happier.

Be grateful

If you are reading this text, it is important to understand that you have a lot of things to be thankful for. You have access to the Internet, and this means that you have a roof over your head, food and clean water. This puts you at the top of the world’s population because you have the basic things of life. Every day, be thankful for what you have.

Get out

Whether you live in a city or in a remote village, getting out is good for you. It’s a great therapy, and some researchers claim that it makes you healthier. Spend at least a little time out every day, and be in nature when you are given the opportunity.

Value your feelings

Pay attention to your feelings. Give them the attention they deserve. If you are crying – weep, if you are laughing – laugh, if you want to scream – scream at the top of your lungs. Once you begin to appreciate your feelings, you can continue to move forward in life because you have taken care of the most important thing.

Love yourself, and let it be your priority

Try to take care of yourself in a way that means to you. Go to a beautician, sleep more one morning, eat your favorite chocolate … Enjoy the small pleasures.

Stay in the present

Living in the present will help you in many ways. It will give you a healthy perspective and a good outlook at life. You only have this moment, so why not use it as much as possible?

Set boundaries and hold onto them

Although having fun is very important, it is also important that you have boundaries. Don’t do bad things to others and don’t insult anyone. If you don’t like something, say it in a nice way. If you don’t understand the actions of other people, simply leave, don’t try to start a fight.

Slow down

Breathe deeply. Relax. The traffic jams won’t clear if you nervously hit the steering wheel. When you can’t change the situation, you can change the way you react. Don’t worry and relax.

Avoid toxic situations

There are people who love you, but there are also those who don’t like you. And when they join together, there may be a situation that is toxic to you. In these situations it is best to leave. Go elsewhere, or get in touch with other people.


Share your gifts and blessings with the people you love, even with those you don’t like. If you have more money, donate. If you have more free time, volunteer. Help those who are not as happy as you.